As an on line psychic, I speak to many people. The majority are females. The questions they asked me are usually about relationships. At least 75% ask me about men that are either involved with someone else or married.
I wonder what part of “Thou Shall Not Covet” don’t they understand. They do not want to hear it is wrong to try and break up a relationship whose vows were pledged before God. They do not want to hear anyone in a committed relationship is off limits. They are not interested if this affair will adversely affect any children born of the union they are trying to break up. They just do not want to hear. Most of these women are religious and go to church. Maybe they slept through the part of what is wrong in the eyes of God.
The men are no better. “My wife does not understand me” is a crock. The lines these guys say are strictly to solicit sympathy from the women they are interested in bedding. After a few months or so of this illicit affair, the men will usually pull something such as, “I can’t get a divorce because -
a) of the children
b) the financial arrangement of a divorce will be too much
The women might answer - I will give you the money for the divorce, or, I will help you pay the child support. In other words, these women are trying to buy this ‘perfect union with their soul mate’.
We have all heard the expression ‘men are hunters, women are gatherers’. This does not mean men are to hunt as many women as possible. Women are not to nest with someone already involved with another person.
No relationship will be perfect in every respect. A prince will not come and whisk someone to a perfect life in a castle in the sky. The castle still has cleaning and cooking and washing and raising children. This does not mean the prince can go and look for another because his princess is now involved with the children more so than with him. This definitely does not mean another woman can expect an involved male to whisk her to another castle.
This is a wake up call to any and all to whom it applies. We all are supposed to have more than one soul mate in this life time. We will have a choice of which to be with. Find the one not committed to another person. Don’t make the excuse of - I deserve to be happy also.
One more point I wish to make. Any man that will leave his wife and children for another woman, will usually ultimately leave her also when he finds another woman who does not care about breaking up a relationship. It is then I hear - how can he do this to me? The pattern was established when he left a committed relationship for you. Don’t expect him to be faithful now.
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